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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Richie,

No, I just spoke to someone at one of the people who work at Trader Joe's in Ventura, and he said, my pleasure you are welcome!

Jan 13, 2018 11:50 AM
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Anthony Acosta - ALLATLANTAcondos.com
Harry Norman, REALTORS® - Atlanta, GA
Associate Broker

Change of the times Richie Alan Naggar 

Jan 13, 2018 11:21 AM
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Richard Bazinet /MBA, CRS, ABR
West USA Realty - Scottsdale, AZ
Phoenix Scottsdale. Sellers, Buyers & Relocations

Every generation has its own expressions I guess...

Jan 13, 2018 04:54 PM
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Susie Kay
Ultra Real Estate Dallas Fort Worth - Plano, TX
North Dallas Specialist

You are right.  I just accept their response :)

Jan 13, 2018 11:21 AM
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
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It's still your day, Richie! I say, "You're welcome" or "My Pleasure" too! 

To me, 'No problem' infers a negative - as if to say there should be a problem but, they're not going to hold it against you!

Jan 13, 2018 09:20 PM
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Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

The times are a-changing and we probably need to change with the times. Otherwise, we will be called the 'old fogies' of yesteryear.

Jan 13, 2018 06:42 PM
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Raj Taj
RE/MAX - Lake Bluff, IL
Drive By Blessings!

I just say; I'm glad it wasn't a problem for you.

Jan 13, 2018 03:35 PM
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Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
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Well you are very welcome, and thank you kindly!
I will take any gesture of kindness, no matter how it's expressed. If the intent is there, I'll take it.

Jan 13, 2018 03:12 PM
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Michael J. Perry
KW Elite - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster, PA Relo Specialist

I now say - de nada

Jan 13, 2018 03:00 PM
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Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

That is a far out and out of sight question. Seriously, every generation is a bit different and older generations want them to mirror their behavior. FYI, I actually said far out.

Jan 13, 2018 02:50 PM
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Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Correct manners are slipping by the wayside. Should be your welcome. No problem is when someone runs over YOUR foot with a grocery cart.

Jan 13, 2018 12:41 PM
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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

No worries Richie Alan Naggar No worries.

Jan 14, 2018 07:41 AM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
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Depends on what people are taught.

Jan 13, 2018 06:05 PM
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Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Chic-fil-A employees respond with My Pleasure and I find that very polite and respectful.

Jan 13, 2018 05:44 PM
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Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

  The upscale restaurants here won't allow their servers to say, "No Problem".  They make them say "My pleasure" or "You are welcome".

Jan 13, 2018 01:37 PM
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Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

When manners are no longer taught or followed, a generation becomes lost to it. 

 

Jan 13, 2018 01:17 PM
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John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Richie Alan Naggar times are changing. Good questions!

Jan 13, 2018 01:07 PM
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Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

I hate that.... I like hearing you're welcome.... 

Jan 13, 2018 12:14 PM
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Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Shows how you were raised. Ever been in line at the subway waiting for your sandwich artist creation and heading down the line with the sneeze glass. And you say please and thank you but the guy in front of you grunts this, that but no please, no thank you and seems irritated. It is not hard to appreciate when a person does anything for you. It is not just their job but they are serving you. Show appreciate is what I taught the four kids as a single full time Dad.

Jan 13, 2018 12:14 PM
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Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
Your Commercial Real Estate Link to Northern VA

Richie Alan Naggar This is right up there with "What will you guys have?" when my Wife and I go to a restaurant. "I'll have ________. No problem!"

Jan 13, 2018 12:08 PM
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Lynnea Miller
Bend Premier Real Estate - Bend, OR
Premier Real Estate Service in Central Oregon

The way we speak changes with each generation.  Imagine 30 years ago speaking with all our tech terms that we use each day.  People then would think we are speaking another language.

Jan 13, 2018 11:54 AM
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Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041
ReMax Realtec Group - Palm Harbor, FL
Making FLORIDA Real Estate EZ

"No problem."

I have no issue with that. However, it is the silience that is troubling.

Do they have some invisible earbud preventing them hearing 'thank you?"

Do I need to grab them by the lapel and repeat..."I said Thank YOU!:

Then I get, 'What's your problem?"

"No problem, " I' would reply.

Jan 13, 2018 11:53 AM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

I have seen this also with the young folks, and I would say you are welcome, and do when my clients thank you.  Or, my pleasure! 

Jan 16, 2018 06:03 AM
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Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

Each Generation has a way of communicating.  I'm okay with all of them!

Jan 14, 2018 07:53 AM
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Peter Testa
Nationwide Homes - Danbury, CT
PETER TESTA

Some customs get old, like how men used to wear suits & hats everywhere they went but being polite & respectful should never go out of style. That's what I teach my kids but you can't say the same for everyone.

Jan 14, 2018 07:51 AM
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
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No problem seems to be the response. I hear it a lot on TV too ... I like to watch Dr. Jeff the Mt. Vet and the doctors there, one in particular, says "no problem" all the time.  People are crying with gratitude thanking him and he casually says ... no problem. 

I prefer you are welcome or you are most welcome. I'm happy to help. 

Jan 14, 2018 07:29 AM
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Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Coldwell Banker Realty

Anthony Acosta - ALLATLANTACONDOS.COM nailed this one!

Jan 14, 2018 07:09 AM
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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
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I still say "you're welcome" - seems like the right thing to say.

If someone else says "no problem", I just figure they mean "you're welcome"

Jan 14, 2018 06:46 AM
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Bob Betel
Allstar Home Mortgage, Inc. - Sweetwater, TN
President, Allstar Home Mortgage, Inc

I'll accept any of those responses, just as long as they respond 

 

Jan 14, 2018 05:47 AM
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

We are much to casual now. A definite sign of the times.

Jan 14, 2018 03:24 AM
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Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I do not mind, we can not fix others, and only in charge for our own words and actions.

Jan 13, 2018 11:48 PM
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Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

I am from 'You are Welcome' geneation, too Richie Alan Naggar.

Jan 13, 2018 10:33 PM
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Dave Halpern
Dave Halpern Real Estate Agent, Inc., Louisville, KY (502) 664-7827 - Louisville, KY
Louisville Short Sale Expert

"No problem" means if it were a problem I wouldn't have helped you.

Jan 13, 2018 09:36 PM
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Steve Penner
Royal LePage Dynamic RE / Pro Ledger Bookkeeping Software - Winnipeg, MB
REALTOR® / Pro Ledger Online (owner)

I find many common expressions become overused at times... another one is: "how are you?"... and the answer is?.... "I'm fine"... and really does the person want to know how you really are?  and are you really fine?... 

Jan 13, 2018 07:00 PM
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

It is what it is, Richie... at this point in time I'm happy if someone says thank you and/or responds to a thank you.

Jan 13, 2018 12:02 PM
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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

We hear 'no problem' all of the time rather than 'you are welcome'.

Jan 13, 2018 11:59 AM
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Valeria Mola
SIB Realty - Miami, Sunny Isles Beach - Sunny Isles Beach, FL
305-607-0709 SIB Realty Condos for Sale and Rent

No problem. 

Nov 16, 2018 04:50 PM
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Evelina Tsigelnitskaya
SIB Realty - Sunny Isles Beach, FL

Yes, it is Welcome in my vocabulary.

Nov 16, 2018 04:33 PM
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Mike Rock
Complete Design - Granite Bay, CA
Granite Bay Luxury New Construction...For Less

friggin boils my blood when a milennial answers no problem, when they make a coffee (or anything) as a service agent, and i say Thank you.. they say no problem... i want to stuff my REALLY.... down their throat.. its NOT a problem to do your friggin job???  strong letter to follow .. this country is going to be a third world nation before we know it

Jan 14, 2018 09:04 PM
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Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

My father-in-law took particular exception to the "no problem" response, also citing the more proper "you're welcome". My pet peeve is the "ah-ha" response after a thank you.

Jan 14, 2018 10:37 AM
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Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

It depends.  The vast majority of the time I'll use "My Pleasure" mainly because people seem to like that more than "you're welcome."  With friends I'll sometimes use "Anytime" or "Anytime Bro".  At one job, we routinely used "No Prob" and "No Prob Bob".

Jan 14, 2018 09:39 AM
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Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Not a problem!  

Jan 14, 2018 05:28 AM
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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Yes.

Jan 14, 2018 03:01 AM
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William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I hate the no problem response

Jan 13, 2018 05:59 PM