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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I had a negative comment recently and several members let me know their disgust with that member; they were clearly more upset about it than me!

Someone is having a bad day or is simply a Negative Ninny and I don't think reasoning with them really does any good - especially if they're 'fixed' in that mindset!

Jan 11, 2018 02:39 PM
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Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Unless he/she "it" posted anonymously I'd leave it up to expose "its" true nature.  If "it" posted anonymously I'd delete.  

Jan 11, 2018 02:52 PM
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Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
928-201-4BHC (4242) call/text

I'm just completely tired of people today. F people like that. They live in hell and that's where they belong.
What the holy hell was their contribution?

Jan 11, 2018 02:26 PM
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Fred,

I laughed.  I would have erased it in the past, however, I felt that this exposed this individual for exactly who they are.  What is prized in the luxury arena above all is courteous and polite behavior.   Why delete?  He sounded his rattles for all of us to hear!  No need to report, he reported himself.  

Thanks Fred!

Jan 11, 2018 02:36 PM
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Holy crap! I'd delete immediately and forget this person existed. Of course, if I was feeling really ornery I'd probably leave a few pithy comments on that person's site.

Jan 11, 2018 03:01 PM
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Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

I would delete it. I've decided a long time ago that I should not have to tolerate offensive or rude comments. This would fall into at least one of those categories. 

Jan 11, 2018 02:57 PM
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Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

 Some people never seem to amaze me. Ignore.

Jan 11, 2018 02:41 PM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

I would leave it up, others will respond to them for their rudeness, but I wont.

Jan 11, 2018 09:57 PM
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Raj Taj
RE/MAX - Lake Bluff, IL
Drive By Blessings!

Give Peter Lake a little slack...he's from Marblehead. At least he has an award for fighting bigotry.

Jan 11, 2018 08:39 PM
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Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home is where the hearth is.

"I totally agree... I can't understand why Active Rain would publish your comment, either."

Jan 11, 2018 07:48 PM
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Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Fred, I've seen enough of the type over the years.  With only 40,116 points, he still hasn't figured out how this community works and has mistaken it to be like Facebook where he can say whatever he wants without consequence.  Mostly people like him leave the platform because being a troll doesn't sell here.  Or they finally "get it" and realize undercutting someone's public facing post is just rude.  Bill

Jan 11, 2018 07:36 PM
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Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

I would not block out the name so they could be famous. 

Jan 11, 2018 03:11 PM
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Anthony Acosta - ALLATLANTAcondos.com
Harry Norman, REALTORS® - Atlanta, GA
Associate Broker

Ignore and move on. 

Jan 12, 2018 04:24 AM
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Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

D.E.L.E.T.E. Only detracts from the post and is all people will remember. Play nice or go spew on your own page.

Jan 11, 2018 07:38 PM
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Richard Bazinet /MBA, CRS, ABR
West USA Realty - Scottsdale, AZ
Phoenix Scottsdale. Sellers, Buyers & Relocations

Obviously not a happy camper.

Must have voted for Hilary.

Just kidding folks!!!

Jan 11, 2018 06:08 PM
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John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Fred Griffin it is better if we know the person identity.

Jan 11, 2018 04:16 PM
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Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

I've had worse said to me!!!  can't fix stupid.... delete the comment... 

Jan 11, 2018 02:30 PM
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Lynnea Miller
Bend Premier Real Estate - Bend, OR
Premier Real Estate Service in Central Oregon

Someone is unkind and has too much time on their hands. I would probably delete it.

Jan 11, 2018 02:26 PM
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Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

It seems many have become knowledgeable on so many subjects and then all they want to do is :

Aaliyah - Rock The Boat - YouTube

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Jan 12, 2018 04:13 AM
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Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

I would probably delete and move on. I doubt that staff would do anything about it. One day maybe we will be able to block members like this from posting anything on our blogs. Bring on the button.

Jan 11, 2018 07:08 PM
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Teri Pacitto
Compass - Westlake Village, CA
Real Estate, Your Style...Your Home...My Specialty

Carol Williams I agree with you on this.  Agree with many others here, but often people who do this are looking for a reaction and they are not worth your time.

People who have too much time on their hands to posts rude and obnoxious remarks need to go look in the mirror.  AR is not a place to troll and be rude.  If you don't have something worth contributing move along to FB where they enjoy the battering.  This is not the venue.  

Jan 11, 2018 04:00 PM
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Allie Angeloni
Long Realty - Oro Valley, AZ

That is harsh Fred Griffin, and if someone cannot post a civil reply, where value is added of some kind, then just 'walk on by'.  I would Report it, not delete it, and comment on it.  I would not stoop to their level, this is not a game, this is life.  This is not FB.  We are not here to degrade anyone, so 'if you cannot help yourself', this site is possibly not for you.  No one is here to be rude.

Jan 11, 2018 03:51 PM
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John Meussner
Mortgages in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, GA, IN, MD, MN, MT, NC, NJ, NV, OK, OR, PA, SC, SD, TN, TX, UT, VA, WI - Fair Oaks, CA
#MortgageMadeEasy Fair Oaks, CA 484-680-4852

Honestly, it depends what I wrote.  If I went back and thought "yeah this post sucks" I'd probably thank them.  If I didn't, I'd probably offer up a snarky response.  Some people just enjoy being trolls.

Jan 11, 2018 03:28 PM
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Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Feedback & input can be handled as the receiver sees fit no questions asked

Jan 11, 2018 03:24 PM
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Gloria Valvasori, Accredited Senior Agent
BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS REAL ESTATE SIGNATURE SERVICE - Mississauga, ON
REAL Experience | REAL Commitment | REAL Results!

I guess everyone has a right to their opinion, but not sure why anyone would  make a comment like this publicly on a post....you can't fix stupid... I would ignore it and move on.

Jan 11, 2018 02:52 PM
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Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

Delete it. it's a no win situation to reason with a jackass.

Jan 11, 2018 02:34 PM
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Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I would screen shot, send to bob and delete.  Some people need to learn to behave or play somewhere else.

Jan 11, 2018 02:23 PM
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Peter Testa
Nationwide Homes - Danbury, CT
PETER TESTA

In AR & in life there's negative people, worse yet toxic people & the Internet is full of real & fake profiles; people they call Trolls; looking to bait you into a nasty debate. Some people on AR are just straight-up nasty in their comments. Others are overly opinionated & don't express their feelings in a polite way or think that their way of seeing something is the only way. NONE are worth your time or response. 

Jan 12, 2018 05:22 AM
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Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Well a happy troll throwing their happy thoughts thruout the universe. He/she doesn't understand that AR never hits the button to publish.

Pretty nasty. 

Jan 12, 2018 05:09 AM
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Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

I'd call the person to get more details on this comment, Fred Griffin 

Jan 11, 2018 08:27 PM
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Libby Cousins
Extraordinary Processing - Spokane, WA
Contract Mortgage Processor, licensed in WA

I would ignore it. I would probably also visit that person's blog and see what kind of contributions they were making, though I wouldn't comment. 

Jan 11, 2018 04:56 PM
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Francine Viola
Coldwell Banker Evergreen Olympic Realty, Olympia WA - Olympia, WA
REALTOR®, In Tune with your Real Estate Needs

That's painful.  I would delete, report and block.  

Jan 11, 2018 04:50 PM
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William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I would leave it and let others see who posted it if they were brave enough to have their name on it

Jan 11, 2018 04:33 PM
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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

I would move on.

Jan 11, 2018 03:57 PM
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Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

Ah ha. I would ignore it. 

Jan 11, 2018 03:54 PM
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Kathryn Acciari
Central One Federal Credit Union - Shrewsbury, MA
Mortgage Loan Originator

Astounding. "If you can't say something nice, say nothing at all." What a shame that person felt compelled to post such a comment.

Jan 11, 2018 03:53 PM
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Dave Skow
Movement Mortgage - Seattle, WA
Dave Skow

assess what you posted  ....and  maybe revise the original post  ...maybe there was soemthing to the comment ?

Jan 11, 2018 03:16 PM
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Eve Alexander
Buyers Broker of Florida - Tampa, FL
Exclusively Representing ONLY Tampa Home Buyers

Nothing surprises me.

I have a very thick skin and would ignore it...

Eve

Jan 11, 2018 02:57 PM
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Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041
ReMax Realtec Group - Palm Harbor, FL
Making FLORIDA Real Estate EZ

#1 Delete

or

#2, if others expressed they received benefit, simply thank them for playing.

#3. Agree with them and commit to do better.

#4. Realize that 250 word blog can not go very deep. 

#5. Remind them of the 'refund' policy.

Jan 11, 2018 02:25 PM
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Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

I wish I could see who this was or what post it was.  I've had negative comments once from someone who frequents the Q&A section.  It was on a market report back when there was a lot of frustration over the people who post 200 of them per day (I only did 9 a week at that point).  I ended up responding to it and it never went beyond that.   I think these days I'd delete them or just follow Candice A. Donofrio's route and disable comments all together.

Jan 12, 2018 09:12 AM
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Greg Large
ERA Real Solutions - Grove City, OH
A Tradition of Trust

saw it, ignored it and would do the same if on my post.

Jan 12, 2018 06:12 AM
Rainmaker
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Richard Weeks
Dallas, TX
REALTOR®, Broker

I will let my good friend Sweet Brown answer for me:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6gLMSf4afzo

Jan 12, 2018 05:37 AM
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

I am a big fan of the saying "you can't fix stupid", so delete and move on considering the source!

Jan 12, 2018 05:36 AM
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Bob Betel
Allstar Home Mortgage, Inc. - Sweetwater, TN
President, Allstar Home Mortgage, Inc

OK, so now I'm trying to find out the post and the comment to satisfy my curiosity. Sort of a "Where is Waldo?"  I guess the  first thing that comes to mind is just to ignore it, but that is not my personality. I would always answer back and my comment to this one would be more to the lines of "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't comment.

Jan 12, 2018 05:30 AM
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Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Alan May nailed this one!

Jan 12, 2018 04:30 AM
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Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Invite them to add what would be useful information? What were they looking for that they did not get? 

Jan 12, 2018 04:16 AM
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Hella Mitschke Rothwell
(831) 626-4000 - Honolulu, HI
Hawaii & California Real Estate Broker

I would be tempted to "return the favor", but then, it's a beautiful New Year, all things are possible, and some creep is not going to get me down! So, yeah, I would probably delete it.

Jan 11, 2018 11:58 PM
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Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

I think you should tell us who it was so we can all ask the person What the Heck????

Really Rude and uncalled for so why did they write it? 

Jan 11, 2018 11:57 PM
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Valeria Mola
SIB Realty - Miami, Sunny Isles Beach - Sunny Isles Beach, FL
305-607-0709 SIB Realty Condos for Sale and Rent

For real? 

Never seen something like that. 

Happy Holidays!

Dec 21, 2018 12:37 PM
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Carla Freund
Keller Williams Preferred Realty - Raleigh, NC
NC Real Estate Transition & Relocation 919-602-848

Same as what many have said, leave it exposed if you can see who it is. 

Ironically, their answer, "This is totally lacking in useful advice" is also lacking in "useful advice" and makes me wonder, Why would they even publish this????

Jan 14, 2018 07:28 AM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Goodness, clearly their mom did not tell them, if you cannot say something nice - don't say anything!  

Jan 14, 2018 06:45 AM
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

What I would do might change on any given day Fred Griffin - some days I have more patience and tolerance ... 

Jan 13, 2018 08:08 AM
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Joyce Marsh
Joyce Marsh Real Estate LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Joyce Marsh Homes

I think he already has received much more attention and publicity than he deserves. 

Jan 12, 2018 08:34 AM
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Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Was it by a member, or a hit and run anonymous poster?

Jan 12, 2018 05:58 AM
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Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
Your Commercial Real Estate Link to Northern VA

Fred Griffin I would delete the comment.

Jan 12, 2018 04:45 AM
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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Ignore it.

Jan 12, 2018 04:33 AM