5,440,249
I'm so sad that you feel that way, Dennis and I'm sure you're not the only man making those changes.
Call me old fashioned but, a nice compliment is welcomed by me and is nowhere near crossing the line of sexual harassment...as least not in my book.
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Steve Higgins
Kelowna, BC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Lynnea Miller
Bend, OR
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Kathleen Daniels, Prob...
San Jose, CA
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Peter Testa
Danbury, CT
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Gloria Valvasori, Accr...
Mississauga, ON
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Anthony Acosta - ALLAT...
Atlanta, GA
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Jeff Pearl
Lovettsville, VA
928,528
No. Compliments are a long way away from sexual harassment.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Candice A. Donofrio
Fort Mohave, AZ
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Steve Higgins
Kelowna, BC
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Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
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Peter Testa
Danbury, CT
2,545,821
No.
I think it's ridiculous that people feel they can't compliment other people in the event it might be seen as harassment. I know someone who got mad that someone else called her "honey." It might be against some sort of rules, but saying someone looks nice, or their hair cut is great, is fine in my book. Telling someone you want to touch their boobs is not.
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Kathleen Daniels, Prob...
San Jose, CA
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Greg Large
Grove City, OH
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Jeff Pearl
Lovettsville, VA
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Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
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Peter Testa
Danbury, CT
2,227,228
No, has never been an issue.
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Steve Higgins
Kelowna, BC
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Peter Testa
Danbury, CT
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Anthony Acosta - ALLAT...
Atlanta, GA
773,553
Not even remotely an issue here.
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Peter Testa
Danbury, CT
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Anthony Acosta - ALLAT...
Atlanta, GA
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Steve Higgins
Kelowna, BC
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Jeff Pearl
Lovettsville, VA
5,252,155
I don't.... I don't harrass anyone. By the same token I don not take offense to a compliment, someone holding the door open for me, etc. I do the same for others.
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Steve Higgins
Kelowna, BC
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Bob Crane
Stevens Point, WI
1,091,185
Oh man. I think if you hold a mindset of fear, it actually makes you more susceptible to problems. Just be yourself, come from a place of sincerity and it's all good. Unless they're assholes in pink pussy hats, women want to know you think they look pretty. Guy at the grocery store meat counter tells me every time he sees me that I'm beautiful, reaches out and hi-5s me. Makes my day! I wouldn't complain about him. I've complained about the dumb kids he employs that don't know what dry scallops are. LOL
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Candice A. Donofrio
Fort Mohave, AZ
5,584,078
isn't it ashame that it's to this degree....
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Candice A. Donofrio
Fort Mohave, AZ
577,850
I see nothing wrong with complimenting anyone. That does not constitute sexual harassment in any way.. not even remotely in my book. I think a lady should accept a compliment gracefully the way it was given.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
8,084,775
No. I try to treat everyone with respect.
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Steve Higgins
Kelowna, BC
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Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Richard Bazinet /MBA, ...
Scottsdale, AZ
6,624,577
Treat all people with respect and you will be fine, those folks who made the news were royal jerks and rapists.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Bob Crane
Stevens Point, WI
1,004,418
Nope, I'm a big girl - if anyone does something I don't find appropriate, I tell them so - I don't need to sue them, I'm armed!
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Bob Crane
Stevens Point, WI
1,746,127
No; I just identify myself as someone else before I open my trap.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Bob Crane
Stevens Point, WI
1,530,744
I have a hard enough time remembering to compliment my dates on how they look, so I don't have to worry about co-workers/clients/random people. There is a BIG difference though between "Your outfit looks great" and "Your outfit great, but it would look better on the floor next to my bed."
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Bob Crane
Stevens Point, WI
1,392,883
Of course not. My relationships with my coworkers have never been questionable and there's no reason to change them now.
I can't imagine a world where "Nice hair cut" is construed as sexual harassment.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
670,411
Has not altered behavior, who wants to live in a world where you have to think twice whether to offer a sincere compliment to a man or woman? No inappropriate innuendos or unsolicited touching has ever been acceptable behavior for a gentleman the way I was raised. Respect others sensibilities and space, period.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
750,136
Too bad that kind compliments are now suspect. This is like any bit of political correctness. The pendulum swings too far the other direction and creates chaos and fuel for lawsuits. And society is that much less due to it. True sexual harassment needs to be curtailed, but common courtesy should be encouraged.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
3,408,480
I conduct myself as I always have. I treat people with dignity and respect. If someone says something to me or does something that I feel is inappropriate ... I use my voice and I let them know it.
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
5,425,328
The way things are going soon a conversation will be against the rules. Then common sense may make a comeback, hopefully, and things will begin to be more sensical!
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
719,561
Not changing a thing as far as I'm concerned.
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
5,065,806
No mistletoe at our office this year.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Jeff Pearl
Lovettsville, VA
823,685
No it hasn't.
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Peter Testa
Danbury, CT
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Jeff Pearl
Lovettsville, VA
1,713,576
Never had a problem with that.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Jeff Pearl
Lovettsville, VA
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Peter Testa
Danbury, CT
2,699,847
I've been "Mike Pence" for a long time when it comes to being alone with a woman other than my wife.
Compliments? It's part of my conversation; I won't change it.
And I'm not offended when a female employee at a restaurant, grocery store, or anywhere else calls me "honey" or "darling" or "sweetie". It's a Southern thing.
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Peter Testa
Danbury, CT
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
509,499
It hasn't changed anything for me Dennis Swartz !
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
2,829,166
Mature people can read signs, hear responses and act accordingly. Maturity, common sense and going about something for the right reasons all work. It was the lack of these things that cause problems. The Bee always chases the honey source but for what reason? Therein lies the key. True love prevails
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
3,416,322
I always try to keep things professional these days any way. You have to be care full about that joke you told 20 years ago that could offend someone who remembers it today.
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
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Jeff Pearl
Lovettsville, VA
1,513,143
In politics, it is one way to term limits.
It amazes me that it is a one-way street!
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
4,800,282
3,073,909
921,504
The men in power should take action to make their lives easier and simpler.
That means excluding women from the process entirely.
A male being approached by a women or children should throw their hands in the air and shout, "Get that away from me."
Such reaction is justified when accusers can destroy others without being identified.
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Fred Griffin Florida R...
Tallahassee, FL
1,866,318
Well I think from your examples you are over reacting. Unfortunately the 'pervs' that should be paying attention are not.
We have had no reaction from our owners which is disappointing. What do you expect from the 'good ole' boys' club?
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Charlotte, NC
5,143,839
5,964,801
4,321,670
1,603,017
3,986,423
4,434,227