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216,904
Sharon Altier
Coldwell Banker Realty - Elmhurst, IL
Luxury Property Specialist, CSC, SFR

As long as it is tastefully done.  It is probably one of the best tools for the friends and family of the deceased to be updated.  You can also create a "Memory" page for the person, where photos can be uploaded, info on services, and enables people to post comments on there.  May be very healing for the family. 

Mar 02, 2015 04:36 AM
Rainer
23,743
Eric Valente
Calabasas, CA
Eric

I think, that some kind of message should be posted. And maybe a profile should be closed or deleted. It is really creepy to get all those ''happy birthday! xoxo'' messages from strangers who just want to be nice...

Mar 02, 2015 12:16 PM
Rainmaker
3,986,308
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I agree with Sharon ONLY after the immediate  family has been notified.

Mar 02, 2015 04:40 AM
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6,423,260
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

It is where we get much of our news.

Nov 24, 2019 10:38 PM
Rainer
279,878
Dipti Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Andover, MA
On a team with Praful Thakkar

Yes.

Jul 10, 2018 11:50 PM
Rainmaker
630,251
Ajay Pandya
e-Merge Real Estate Unlimited - Columbus, OH
Realtor Ajay Pandya

I have seen this.

Feb 23, 2018 08:03 PM
Rainmaker
535,278
Robert Havana
Park and Protect- Alberta Real Estate License Parking - Calgary, AB
Alberta Real Estate License Parking

im just clicking back through some of the old Q and A's, looks like this one got lots of good answers.

Mar 01, 2016 02:00 PM
Rainer
50,419
Nora Sims
Northern Shadows Realty, Inc. - Sedona, AZ
helping folks like you since 1978!

Thank you, all. Your comments helped a lot. I was having a problem with groping with this issue.

Mar 09, 2015 02:57 AM
Rainmaker
3,988,013
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

I think most people would not be offended and if the family approves I would say it was okay. I would not do it however.

Mar 07, 2015 07:17 AM
Rainmaker
913,818
Jeff Pearl
RE/MAX Distinctive / LIC in VA - Lovettsville, VA
Full Service Full Time Realtor

Yes. People do it all the time. Even funeral homes have fb pages that reportss deaths. We have groups the notify me of deaths of people that went to same high school, etc. Even the newspapers report them on social media. Most times the family has already given their consent to the funeral home.

Mar 02, 2015 09:14 PM
Rainmaker
875,212
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Yes, I will do that if I know the person so more people find out about and pay their respects.  I get a lot of thanks when I do that

Mar 02, 2015 07:31 PM
Rainmaker
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Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Are you related?

I think, that it should be disclosed somewhere in the profile( if you want to keep the page active). People can be very obnoxious on FB, posting self promotions, spam, tagging, poking, etc.

Mar 02, 2015 03:34 PM
Rainmaker
1,683,912
Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

I don't see an issue with it.  Someone may be glad you did, so they can send a sympathy card to a loved one.

Mar 02, 2015 12:15 PM
Rainmaker
4,319,773
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

 Nora Sims it's OKAY to post it - however, make it a point to call / inform the closest family members first - they should not get this news from Social Media.

Mar 02, 2015 11:51 AM
Rainmaker
193,237
Suzanne Cutler
SUCCESS! Real Estate - Braintree, MA

I don't see anything wrong with posting it on FB, it's a way to let people know.  I don't mean telling immediate family this way but others.

Mar 02, 2015 11:46 AM
Rainmaker
2,443,250
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

I don't believe I would do that, however I have seen several posted by others.

Mar 02, 2015 11:25 AM
Rainer
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Nora Sims
Northern Shadows Realty, Inc. - Sedona, AZ
helping folks like you since 1978!

Who is family? Our uncle died, and just because we live states away, we find out about it on facebook. Is that right?

Mar 02, 2015 10:07 AM
Rainmaker
4,800,132
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

I don't know about others, but I think I'll put in my will not to notify Facebook or any other social media.  

Only my close friends and relatives need to know and they will find out the old fashioned way.

Mar 02, 2015 07:23 AM
Rainmaker
927,795
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Someone here on ActiveRain just let people know of her relative's death on FB.  I think the family should be the first to discuss it if they feel it is appropriate, and then I would ask them before I stated anything, too!

Mar 02, 2015 06:50 AM
Rainmaker
386,078
Trumps Elite
Keller Williams Realty Acadiana - Lafayette, LA
Realtors/Career Consultant

I have been in this situation personally when my husband died. I don't think it is appropriate without the family's permission. There are times when immediate family find out through that medium instead of the way they should and I think that is wrong and disrespectful.

Mar 02, 2015 06:37 AM
Rainmaker
4,180,864
John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Nora, I think, it is important the family of deceased person notified.

Mar 02, 2015 06:28 AM
Rainmaker
443,220
Cindy Davis
SD Home Source Realty - San Diego, CA

I agree with Shannon and Nora. I would also ask the family's permission.

Mar 02, 2015 05:07 AM
Rainer
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Nora Sims
Northern Shadows Realty, Inc. - Sedona, AZ
helping folks like you since 1978!

Thank you, Sharon and William. 

Mar 02, 2015 04:46 AM